If I look at the church of the
western world specifically, seems like most of the messages we hear are self-help
or feel good messages. I think we focus a lot on what we need and what we want. Will
we ever feel fulfilled? What’s missing? I think we have been equipped for
decades, but have not been radical about stepping out, we desperately want to
grow and see change in our lives and in our walks with God and are frustrated
when we get stuck on a rut.
I believe the way to see that happen is to
take ALL the focus off YOU. Seems counterintuitive, I know. I truly believe if we took the focus off of
ourselves and put it on everyone around us our lives would change dramatically.
Our friends and family first, then other people, people who are in need, desperase situations around us… that’s when you will see change and growth in yourself. I think the culture we live in is very inwardly focused. Examine the things that you pray for, are most of your prayers focused on yourself, your insecurities, your fears, your problems? Imagine taking a week and only allowing yourself to prayer for and about others. I think that if we shifted our focus off ourselves and place it on others, that is when you see transformation. Outward Christianity does more for you inwardly than inwardly Christianity ever could.
Our friends and family first, then other people, people who are in need, desperase situations around us… that’s when you will see change and growth in yourself. I think the culture we live in is very inwardly focused. Examine the things that you pray for, are most of your prayers focused on yourself, your insecurities, your fears, your problems? Imagine taking a week and only allowing yourself to prayer for and about others. I think that if we shifted our focus off ourselves and place it on others, that is when you see transformation. Outward Christianity does more for you inwardly than inwardly Christianity ever could.
So I want to challenge you to only
prayer for others for an entire week. Don’t let yourself say the words “I” or “Me”
when you’re praying, instead use “They”, “Them”, “us” and “we”. Even if you are
going through a struggle or hard time, take a break from praying for you. See
what happens.
Humbly,
Carly Honeybunn
Challenge accepted! Love you!! Dana
ReplyDeleteGreat stories and information.....It is such a blessing to be able to feel your compassion through your wtiting!!! Papa and I knew this would be life changing for you.You...and ....all those you are involved with....workers ...and....those you strive to help...are in our prayers.....God bless and keep you in His care......love you Mama
ReplyDeleteexcellent insight. Altruism is an excellent coping mechanism for dealing with stress and one's own problems. For healing in mental health to occur, looking outside of one's self is essential. Congratulations for excellent application of your experiential learning.
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